Ben and Elise met through a mutual friend and Ben’s initial reaction to meeting her was to throw up a silent prayer, “Please Lord, let her be single!” Ben’s prayer was answered. She was single, he got her number, and the two started seeing each other. Ben met Elise right when she was diagnosed with cancer for the second time. Not everyone would consider that a romantic detail in their love story, but the way I see it Ben started early by proving he could stand by Elise in sickness and in health. Thankfully, Elise is now in remission and enjoying health and vitality once again.

Ben proposed to Elise in a fun creative way only a couple of weeks ago, by attaching the proposal to her dog, Joey, via a personalized bandana. Joey sat patiently among rose petals and waited for her mom to answer. Because Ben and Elise were engaged such a short time, Elise seemed slightly concerned when she reached out to book me. I love getting emails that say things like: I know this is crazy, but I’m getting married in less than two months. I’m aware it’s a long shot, but please tell me you’re available. That’s not a direct quote, but the email I received from Elise in mid-June said something very similar. It was flattering that she wanted me to part of her day and I’m so thankful that I was available to be part of this wedding because it was an especially good one. I particularly enjoyed the small bits of traditional Indian culture that were incorporated into the wedding. Ben’s mother Ethel did an amazing job of being inclusive and explaining the traditions to those who were unfamiliar with them.

When it comes to July weddings, I typically plan on being uncomfortable and hot all day. Fortunately, Ben and Elise were blessed with an unseasonably cool day with low humidity and pleasant breezes. It was a wonderful cherry on top of an awesome day.

I’m sure you’d rather look at wedding photos than reading my commentary on the wedding, so I’ll just acknowledge some of the people who helped with the wedding and then let you get on to the good stuff, the photos. Happy Scrolling!

Catering: Johnny Carino’s Muncie, IN
Cupcakes: Concannon’s Bakery  Muncie, IN
Florist: Dandelions Flowers & Gifts Muncie, IN

Before the First Look, Ethel arranged for a traditional Indian blessing. Ben and Elise received their blessings separately so they wouldn’t see each other yet.

The couple wanted to do all their photos in advance because their wedding ceremony and reception were all in the same place. It worked out really well that way because guests didn’t have any wait time between the ceremony and reception.

After the formal dances, Ben and Elise changed into traditional Indian clothing for the rest of the reception. Ben is wearing a Sherwani and Elise is in a Ghagra.

Shout out to Bob, pictured here slow dancing with his lady. Bob selflessly carried my strobe around for all the portraits, just because he’s a nice guy. I thank you and Ashley also thanks you. You’re a rockstar!

Going out with couples to do sunset photos is one of my favorite parts of the wedding. It was especially fun with Ben and Elise, because of their complete wardrobe change. We spent a little extra time documenting these intricate garments and the smiling people in them.

Ben and Elise, your love and joy are contagious and I’m so thankful I was able to be part of your wedding. Thanks for allowing me to document this awesome day for you. I wish you many happy anniversaries!